Growing up, I’d viewed psychiatry almost as a luxury for the rich and famous.
People started realising it’s good to talk. That’s what happened, T.
Mates, family members, partners are all great outlets to share and halve a problem.
But some issues and concerns are best tackled by seeing a professional, who can offer expert insight and advice. Especially if you’re a neurologically impaired mob-boss.
The stigma of seeking treatment for mental health is definitely disappearing.
Celebrities are opening up regularly on their personal anxiety and depression battles, with tv and podcast producers putting out an array of excellent material on the subject.
And it’s working.
At the same time, depression is still the leading cause of disability world-wide, while suicide remains a global epidemic. Close to 800,000 people are taking their own lives each year (World Health Organisation).
Still plenty of work to be done, then.
You don’t need to be feeling suicidal to want to speak to someone about your mindset, either.
It wouldn’t take being paralysed to see a physio over a bad back, would it?
Following some daft financial decisions that didn’t pan out, I was left with negative feelings I hadn’t experienced for a while; shitty thoughts bouncing around my head like a pinball that I couldn’t shake. I’d done some counselling for binge-drinking a few years back but never ‘got on the couch’ with a proper psychiatrist. It seemed the right time to have a gab.
The days leading up to the session contained mix feelings. Initial excitement for professional analysis on how my mind works slowly gave-way to creeping doubts about the whole arrangement.
I’m from a steady home with a good education; good circle of friends and girlfriend who I’ve always been able to talk openly to. I started to think of the child soldiers out there, carrying the scars of war. Victims wrestling with the aftermath of abuse. Suffering Man United fans.
I’d fortunately never been through a tragic loss, or even a relationship breakup that wasn’t on my terms. What did I need to open up for?
Within minutes of the session I was glad I had, swiftly realising the severe circumstances of others are completely irrelevant to wanting to fix a few mental defects and behavioural patterns of my own.
The therapist was sound; a middle aged male from the region who asked me a few questions about what I’d been going through recently.
He covered a lot of ground; gave some interesting takes on my concerns, offered useful analogies and theories on some of my bad habits and even touched on a couple of mildly traumatic events in my teens that I hadn’t revisited for some time.
The office was relaxed. No sofa, just two leather arm chairs facing each other that created a comfortable environment for natural interaction.
No mention of wanting to sleep with or murder my mam, a la Sigmund Freud. Which was a bonus.
How else could Frasier Crane afford that nice suede Chanel sofa in his penthouse? In reality, the initial assessment and recommended six follow up sessions were reasonable.
As for what others think of you visiting a shrink? ‘Who cares about the shit people say that they don’t have the balls to say to your face?’…
Some conditions won’t simply be solved by talking. But a conversation’s a good place to start.